Due to the great depth of their cognitive processing and their high emotional reactivity, relationship building is a very conscious process for many HSPs.
Category: Relationship
About my relationships.
An RA’s perspective on mono/poly relationships
The first assumption to address is monogamy… which kind of monogamy is meant?
Blame
My goal is to […] break the cycle of system one thinking.
Expansion
More than just a good solution for all of us where none of us had to sacrifice, it also gave us all the opportunity to expand our horizons.
Limits and Consequences
I’ve eaten so hot that for the rest of the evening my lips were themselves so spicy that my partner couldn’t kiss me without pain.
Feelings and Actions
Your beliefs don’t make you a better person. Your behavior does.
Change
when the communication does not improve, the technique takes the blame along with the person who suggested using it
Boundaries, Agreements and Rules
it became clear that no matter how it is written or presented, what really matters is how it is implemented
Trust
If we are able to show and express our true selves without recriminations, then we are more likely to do so.
Thought crime inherent in monoamory?
I suspect that almost every romantic relationship began after people found each other mutually attractive.
Agile
I have started to realize the parallels in my opinions towards effectively running a business or project and having good relationships. My mental foray in to the possibilities of multiple loves began at about the same time as my opinions changed about business. I went away from strict control and sticking to meticulous advanced planning…
Relationship Rules
If I think a relationship would be good for the both of us, I will encourage it.
