It’s been about 7 years since my last post, but I’m back. What happened to me? I started a business and it took up so much of my time and energy that I couldn’t keep up posting here. Then of course COVID-19 hit and due to lockdowns, I wasn’t allowed to open my business, but…
HSP and Deviant Loving – Why my SO is a Superhero
Due to the great depth of their cognitive processing and their high emotional reactivity, relationship building is a very conscious process for many HSPs.
Are We Focusing on Trivial Bullshit?
We’re all fighting for essentially the same thing. Why are we wailing on each other over minor differences?
Top 10 Mono-Normative Things Poly People Hear
Without the background of assumptions, the same questions and statements sound quite ridiculous.
Why you are ALWAYS teaching
No-one is going to support a cause they don’t understand for people they don’t even like.
Touch Deprived
Our society is touch deprived
An RA’s perspective on mono/poly relationships
The first assumption to address is monogamy… which kind of monogamy is meant?
Kind rejection
It felt so good! It was her boundary being expressed… and in that moment, I felt more connected with her than if she had bared her breasts for me.
Personally Impersonal
I am not just rejected, but my very presence is rejected […] my existence is not even worthy of acknowledgement.
Futility of Bans
People simply exist. Traits simply exist. Just accept the wide variety that is humanity and let the diversity work to our advantage.
Nomad/Malfare
I thoroughly enjoyed the Nomad shifts. Patrolling the festival grounds checking up on people, making sure that everyone was okay and ensuring the area was safe was just my cup of tea.
Singleish
I look forward to seeing myself once I emerge out of the cocoon and spread my newly formed wings.
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